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Pat Parlette

Pat Parlette

In Memoriam

Feb. 13, 1926 - Nov. 6, 2019

I am sad to report that Pat Parlette died this morning, November 6, 2019. She was 93 years old. She was in poor health since March but never complained and did not want her trouble widely known.

Friends may call at the Edward Lawrence Funeral Home, 2119 Post Road, Darien on Saturday, November 9, 2019 from 11:00 AM to 12:30 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at St. John R.C. Church, 1986 Post Road, Darien on Saturday, November 9, 2019 at 1:00 PM. Burial will follow at St. John Cemetery, Darien.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Darien Community Association (DCA), 274 Middlesex Road, Darien, CT 06820.

An obituary has been posted at the Edward Lawrence Funeral Home.


Pat attended Darien CT High School, where she was the first girl drum major they had ever had. This photo shows Pat leading the Darien High School band in 1943 at the Darien railroad station saluting departing recruits. When she graduated, she won a scholarship from the Darien Community Association Thrift Shop. More than half a century later, Pat still gives back by volunteering at the DCA Thrift Shop, the proceeds of which go toward education.

Pat joined the U.S. Cadet Nurse Corps in 1943 and graduated as a nurse from Greenwich Hospital in 1946. For part of her training, she was a student nurse at Yale where she learned special care for polio victims living in iron lungs. After graduation, she got a job at the Tripler Military Hospital in Hawaii caring for polio patients.

When Pat was hired by Seaboard, the military required the presence of a Registered Nurse on passenger flights. On those flights, Pat and the other Flight Attendants who were nurses wore their nurses' uniforms. Her airline career lasted for 38 years.

On Sept. 11, 2001, as soon as Pat heard about the attack on the World Trade Center, although she was then 75 years old, she drove there and volunteered as a nurse, caring for the injured.


In addition, Pat continued her nursing career throughout that period, often caring for patients requiring critical care. She is still involved in nursing to this day, including hospice care. In addition to the thrift shop, Pat volunteers at the Darien Book Aid and the New Covenant House. In 2006, Pat was twice featured in articles in the Darien Times.

As if all of this were not enough to keep her busy, in 2006, Pat traveled to both Yellowstone National Park and China; where she walked on the Great Wall barely six months after having a hip replaced! A few years ago, Pat went for rides in George Jacoban's home-built airplane, and in a sailplane with George.

In November, 2006, Pat traveled to Frankfurt and visited the Baseler Eck.

In September, 2007, Pat traveled to Brazil and visited Ed & Rosie Cardinali.

On Nov. 10, 2008, Pat was presented with the Darien Old Timers' Athletic Association Community Civic Award for 2008. The award is for "regular participation in community civic service of constant loyalty, unquestioned integrity, peerless leadership & sense of fair play" and "exceptional service to others in the finest American tradition."

On May 5, 2009, Pat continued her long service to the Darien Community Association Thrift Shop by modeling in a fashion show. In October 2009, Pat visited Jordan and Egypt. In November, 2010, our ever-intrepid traveler visited Vietnam.

In July 2013, Pat visited Frankfurt to attend the Seaboard lunch. She also attended the 65th anniversary commemorating the beginning of the Berlin Airlift. One of the guest speakers was Col. Gail Halversen, an airlift pilot who used small parachutes to drop candy for the children. He was known as the Candy Bomber and also as the Raisin Bomber. Pat is seen in this photo with the Candy Bomber and a woman who works at the Airlift Memorial at Rhein Main Air Base, Frankfurt.

In the spring of 2014, Pat visited the Holmes Elementary School in Darien CT and spoke to the students about her activities with the Candy Bomber. In May, 2014, Pat took a cruise to Alaska on the MS Oosterdam, a Holland America Line ship. She was feted by the crew when they learned that Pat had been the American nurse (and only non-Dutch crew member) on another Holland America Line ship, the S.S. Veendam (II) in 1950, sixty-four years earlier. When Pat got to Juneau, Alaska, she took a zip-line ride over the Treadline Mine.

When it comes to tepidness, few people of any age can match our Pat.

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